Prof. Amy Cuddy |
I've been thinking
a lot about posture recently. Those of you who know me well know that
I often think a lot about posture, but I have run across a few things
recently that have helped pique my interest. It started with an
excellent TED talk by Amy Cuddy about the effect of posture on our
hormone levels. Professor Cuddy is a psychologist who teaches in the
Harvard Business School. One of her research findings has been that
sitting or standing in a confident, assertive posture for two minutes
significantly lowered a person's cortisol levels while raising their
testosterone levels. Research participants who did this were shown to
be more confident, more relaxed, respond more positively to stress
and to come across as more “genuine” in follow-up interviews.
Sitting in a withdrawn posture had an opposite effect.
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Professor Cuddy's
research points to an important and easily overlooked element of our
posture. How we sit and stand affects our mental and emotional
balance as well as our physical balance. It also affects how others
see us, how we experiences ourselves, and how we interpret events
around us. In the Embodied Leadership workshop series, we regularly
explore posture as a foundation for our presence in the world. Our
last workshop finished up with short exercise on the effect of
natural posture on others' perceptions of us. Facing a partner, we
practiced sitting in a slumped posture, a tense posture, and a
natural posture. In each posture, we introduced ourselves to our
partner as a leader in our field. I would say “Hello, I am Jonathan
Poppele, the founder of the Embodied Leadership training program.”
Afterward, we shared our experiences from these three introductions.
The differences were striking.
Participants
commented that when their partner was sitting in a natural posture,
he or she came across as more genuine, more credible, more
approachable, and more competent. My partner for the exercise was the
executive director of a rapidly growing national non-profit. When she
introduced herself in a collapsed posture, she came across to me as
unprofessional and unimportant. When she introduced herself in a
tense posture, she came across to me as pretentious and
self-promoting. In both cases, I found myself feeling dismissive
toward her and her credentials. It wasn't that I wanted to
write her off—that was just the first feeling that showed up. When
she introduced herself in a natural posture, she came across to me as
engaging, passionate and caring. I found myself wanting to learn more
about her and her work.
The day after the
Embodied Leadership workshop, I attended an all day training on
teaching techniques. This training was led by three career academics.
All three had Ph.D.s and decades of experience teaching in their
fields. At the start of the training, all three introduced
themselves. As they listed their impressive credentials, I found
myself feeling turned off. Why were they tooting their own horns like
this? It seemed unnecessary, pretentious, and self-promoting. Then I
remembered my experience with my partner in the Embodied Leadership
workshop and realized they were just tense! I was left wondered how
many times I have turned people off because I had a tense posture. I
promised myself to practice even more sincerely.
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How about you? What
have you noticed about the effect of your posture on your attitude,
and on other people's attitudes toward you? How do you react to other
people's posture? I look forward to hearing from you.
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